Are you a victim of drive-by Social Networking? Or, worse yet, are you a perpetrator of this mideed?

Drive-by Social Networking is my term for those that send you connection requests on LinkedIn with the default “I’d like to add you to my network” message. With this method, you (as the recipient) have three options:

  1. Accept the connection with no idea of who this person is
  2. Spend 5 minutes looking at their LI profile, trying to figure out who this person is, and why they want to connect with you
  3. Ignore the connection and go about your day.

Social Networking is among the Web 2.0 technologies that are indicated by user-generated and user-controlled content. So, on a social networking site, why would I accept a connection request from someone that I know nothing about and, most likely, knows nothing about me? I have more valuable things to do with my day than to spend time tracking down details of who you are and why I would want to connect with you. And no, being part of the same LinkedIn or trade group does not automatically give me this answer. In most cases, I’m just going to hit the “Archive” button and on about my day.

If you really want to be successful at social networking, just as in real-life networking, it is important to let a new contact know how you can benefit them, or what you hope to gain from them. Networking is about building relationships, so introduce yourself, instead of just flinging a virtual business card in their general direction.


Twitter Fox

TwitterFox is a Firefox plugin that helps you manage your Twitter account. Once installed, it sits in the bottom right corner of your browser window. The interface has tabbed displays to show your entire Twitter stream, your @ replies (Mentions) and your direct messages.  It’s very easy to use, and makes retweeting only a right click away.

TwitterBerry

TwitterBerry is great for staying connected to you Twitter friends on your BlackBerry. You can swith between your stream, your public stream, replies and messages through the menu button. I love this app for keeping up while I’m in waiting rooms and traffic.

Ping.fm

Ping.fm is fabulous for managing several social media sites at once. It works with lots of social media sites, and can be managed by using the web interface, SMS text, or email. You can even set up triggers to post only to specified networks if you don’t want to post to all of them.

HootSuite

HootSuite is the perfect tool for managing several Twitter accounts at once. This is so useful if you manage accounts for your clients, or have personal and professional Twitter accounts. Using the web interface, you can make new posts to your account(s) immediately, or schedule them for future posting. HootSuite now integrates with Ping.fm, so you can use HootSuite to schedule posts to all of your social media sites

DestroyTwitter

DestroyTwitter – Gotta love the name, right? DestroyTwitter is a desktop app for managing your Twitter-verse. Similar to TweetDeck, it runs on the Adobe Air platform, so you’ll have to download and install that as well. Accodring to the website, though, it uses less system resources that TweetDeck, so might be easier for you to use if you’re a big multi-tasker. The interface is broken up into two pages of three columns – Home, Replies & Messages on the first page, Groups, Search and Saved Messages on the second. You can define as many groups as you want, but can only view one group’s stream at a time. My only want for this software is to be able to see two groups at the same time, and maybe some options for layout. However, I do like it the program, and get a kick out of the name every time I use it.


When was the last time that you experienced GREAT customer service? It seems that over the last decade or so, many businesses have adopted a model of striving to provide only adequate or good customer service. Most of the time, clerks and cashiers in stores barely smile or acknowledge you when you are at the register, and employees that you encounter randomly in the store seem to be hoping that you won’t ask them for help. I dread having to call customer service for most companies and if I am in the unfortunate position of needing to contact technical support, I make sure that I have drinks and snacks and get comfortable for what is likely to be a lengthy phone call.

I have, in the last several months, had many occasions to contact (or be contact by) customer service for several companies. Earlier this year, the car adapter for my Microsoft Zune MP3 stopped working just a few short weeks after I purchased it, I was not looking forward to contacting the company about this. The big box store that I had purchased it at wouldn’t help me without a receipt, which I could not locate. The product, however, was still under the manufacturer’s 90-day warranty. I called, explained what had happened, and the astonishingly nice gentleman on the phone said that he would have a free replacement sent to me the next day. That’s it. I didn’t have to jump through hoops, cut through any redtape, or kiss a frog to make it happen. Two days later, my new adapter showed up and works great.

Just a few weeks ago, I was having some issues with the speaker in my Blackberry. Basically, I could no longer hear my phone ring because the speaker was not working. So, after I put my daughter to bed, I grabbed a drink and some snacks and called customer service for my wireless company. The rep that answered my call was very pleasant and, after verifying that my device was still covered under warranty, arranged to send me a replacement device. While waiting for the system to process everything, he and I even had a nice little chat about how nice it was to find a pleasant person on the other end of the phone.

On the other hand, I happened to be around when a client was dealing with an overnight shipping company today. They had requested a package pickup at a specific building. Someone in the client’s office spoke with a rep from the company who said that she would contact the driver and relay the request to them. The driver either did not get the message or did not follow through with the request, and the package did not get picked up on time. When my client called the company to request a credit, she encountered a rude customer service rep who insisted that my client was mistaken and that no live person had spoken with my client’s colleague, that the mistake was my client’s fault, and they would not be credited. I have had similar unpleasant experiences with the same company looking for packages that were not delivered on time or were lost in transit and somehow ended up several states away for no apparent reason. How difficult would it have been for this company to apologize for the mistake and issue a credit in the interest of continuing a potentially lucrative relationship with my client?

When dealing with your clients, remember that every contact that you have with your client – on the phone, by mail, email, blog, social media, and even your voice mail message – is an opportunity to leave them with a GREAT customer service experience. Most consumers will tell up to 10 people when they have a bad experience with a business, but will only tell up to four people when they have had a good experience. At the very least, that should be enough reason to strive to give good customer service (so your customers aren’t telling 10 people about their bad experience). And, when you can provide a GREAT customer service experience, you just might shock your customer into telling people about the experience. They might even blog about it!

So, when was the last time you had a GREAT customer service experience? I invite you to share you experience below…